My first day of juniour year[FIELD REPORT]

[themachine]

Ok so I'm new to this pua thing. So a little background info I'm unpopular don't have any friends and today was my first day.
Basically to sum things up I went from every period not knowing a single person and all the hot girls gave me weird looks. Man FML I couldn't even find someone to sit with at lunch. I basically bagged this year in. I'm throwing in the towel, and waiting for college.

[zegoni]

I allow myself to lol.

Instead of fighting, you give up. And that's after one day. Hmm.

[RedDog]

Lol. Bro, my first day of freshman year, I pulled an all nighter and I didn't talk to ANYBODY. The next day, I came out, well rested, and I was alot better, I had the first day jitters gone and I met some new people and found a lunch table, etc. Don't stress too much, it's not like you're done for the next two years. It's definitely fixable.

[themachine]

But ever since I moved here in 6th grade I haven't been able to make friends.

[Gumby]

Telling yourself that over and over again isn't helping man, that's weak. Plenty of advice on here on how to change yourself, apply it.

[Shampoo]

Just remember Rome wasnt built in one day and it was one of the greatest if not the greatest empire to have ever existed.

[zegoni]

The Roman empire was the greatest by far
But yeah..

[def454]

The mongols had a bigger one, but i guess size isn't everything,i started. Junior year the same way. I wasn't popular by the end but i made some good friends. Senior year i didn't try and did a lot better. I discovered this community in april, lost my virginity and am going to college confident and well equipped.

[Johnny Bravo]

I'll teach you how to make friends.

Step 1: Learn that lying is helpful.
Step 2: Learn when to lie.
Step 3: Become charismatic and loud.
Step 4: Calibrate when you need to use what.


Example: At the gym, with my homie, he knows everyone under the fucking moon man. A guy walks up, "hey whats up man! long time no see!" they shoot the shit. I stand there looking like a douche. If a girl was watching. BAM she would never suck my cock.

The dude starts talking about some weird ass supplement that my homie doesn't know about
"Hey man you heard of gunpowder?? this shit is amazing, i took some before I came here"
My homie gives a blank look, the guy looks at me for social support.

HERES where your knowledge comes into play.

Lie.

I don't know what the fuck gunpowder is, sounds gay, sounds stupid, and it probably is. But I said
"Oh shit man, gunpowder? I've heard some great shit about that, how is it?"

He starts talking with me, and now we know each other. Consider him a friend.

People want to hear what they want to hear, don't be afraid to give it to them.

"Promise me you'll love me forever"
"I'll love you forever baby...but hold on I need to take this call.... Hello? Oh hey Britney, how are you babe?"

[themachine]

But the majority of my classes I know no one and usually mOst classes are quiet with forced note taking.

[ridiculous]

What about lunch? Recess? Breaks between classes?

Come on dude, this is sad, it looks to me like you're pointing out all the negatives that you come across and just accept them.

Of course you can do nothing, say nothing, keep going on the way you are. OR, you could try something different, follow the advice Johnny Bravo gave you, and see how that works out for you.

I moved when I went into Highschool, I knew nobody, but I went around talking to people. It doesn't even matter what you talk about, just introduce yourself (it's better than doing nothing). Sure you get nervous, but you should expect that and learn to cope with it.

Anyways, good-luck to you sir.

[niccolo]

dude your situation could be a shitload worse. What if you were incredibly infamous at your school and people went out of their way to put you down and give you shit? Being unknown and not popular isn't bad.

Basically you have a clean slate (for the most part) because if people have never talked to you then you can very easily change their minds on what they have heard about you. Read up on the forum and start chatting people up.

I would start out by playing in class a little bit. Trick a teacher into doing something or just be a badass in some way that gets you noticed and cool looking. Use your best judgement and DO NOT BE A TRY HARD.

Make this shit come naturally. Be cocky and do what you want to have fun. Also do cold approaches on the side during weekends or whatever so that you know that if people at school are losers, you can just go home and get laid by a girl that you met on the street.

Learn to not give a fuck with the idea that everything is fine and you have everything that you want. People are super attracted to guys that don't care what people think of them.

Good luck dude and you can chat me on aim: princemachi.

[themachine]

Well I'm kinda a loner. I don't have my own social circle I just orbit around one of my very few friends. First period this really pretty girl sits next to me and she doesn't talk just texts I have seen her walking around she just texts during the class and has a lot friends no way she is single and I wouldn't be able to hold an interesting conversation. Anyway it's too good to be true. Second period there are two girls in front of me and two girls across the room. The only talking that goes on is me joking around but ECM then they still won't tart conversation or even acknowledge me and my friend unless we make a joke. "an IOU would be if a girl looks for ways to start conversation" obviously this Ken. Happning so on to the next period. Third period nothing going on here so I'll move in to fourth period. Nothing really in this class I pick my spots to make joke but I'm not getting any "positive" attention from girls so it pretty much a lost cause. Fifth period there's a beutiful girl that sits in front of me but I do t k ow her so ts had to start conversation, especially it's an ap English class where it's minimal talking. 6th period there histat funny guy named paunlo that is the class clown by he knows all the girls gets all the girls and is funny and I can't really out do Pablo I have mo chance so I just withered and laugh at paublo. Basically I'm a semi liner who takes ap classes and I can't wait until high school is over

[RedDog]

Er bro, I dont know if I can help you if you cant help yourself. It sounds like you have great opportunities(Judging by that, your classes are better than mine girl-wise), but you just have to take advantage of them.

[themachine]

Well I have no social circle or nothing most girls only view me as weird a
Creep or just a random quiet guy.