Escalation Squad

[Shampoo]

Yeah the only time under the pants for me was during a dance. Never seen the girl before, grinded for an hour then proceeded to makeout and finger her. Haha I dont think I can be that smooth again if I tried at this rate. But that said, it means I have the potential to be that good.

[Validus]

I'll join this squad for a bit... Just broke up with girlfriend, ( Relationship was sex focused ).

[Validus]

So, Escalation.

What a wonderful game It is..

My personal experiences,

If your with an experienced per say* girl, you set your own limits.

Be it be, how far you chose to go, if your congruent with what your doing, or if you act weird / goal oriented...

The best thing you can do , is just let your worries go and be natural..

It it feels right, then its good.

As soon as you start to feel like your working to do something/ awkward, STOP. Chances are, she has already.. Then try again later if time permits.. Only go as far as you can keep it congruent, other things will come.

Be physical ( KINO ) throughout the entire interaction.. I get away with all kinds of shit I probably shouldn't .. Why ? I don't set limits.. Or try and 'get' anything from them.. It's all fun

The other day at school,

worked my way from teasing a girl to , full on, 'measuring' her boobs with my hands.. Was rather enjoyable.. And we both had a laugh of it.

[Validus]

Find the girls sensitive area's.

This requires pre kino, sexual frame ( not always ), rapport etc.

Examples are : Nipples, side of neck ( BITE, then suck in with air, it feels like hickey too them = GOOD, without the mark. ) Firmly run hands through hair (establish dominant frame), inside of thighs, etc.

[slyman]

Back of neck works well also. Constantly moving your hands is something. Also, pressing your body to hers without taking her body towards yours i've noticed makes her press her body against you.

[Validus]

^.^ Very true slyman..

I love using push/pull in escalation when getting sexual..

Kiss furiously for a bit, lots of kino touching and the happiness....

Roll over, talk about some bullshit..

then start lightly brushing her , towards vag, boobs, back of neck to keep her wondering whats going on.. ( VERY LIGHTLY.. if anyone has ever touched you and it made you get goose bumps, thats what your looking for.. but in a good way ^.^ )

then stop.. jump towards her again, hold head pull towards, don't kiss sit back.. repeat then do what ever.. It's fun times.. Will drive them crazy ! Think : Delaying the inevitable :-D

[slyman]

That's absolutely awesome dude. Suspense is KEY in hooking up.

After a super intense, makout sesh, another way to get some suspense is by just sucking on her lip, not really moving or kissing, just holding that for 3-4 seconds, then going back at it hard, then stopping, then again. All this shit is getting me PUMPED for the weekend!

I asked this earlier but.....What do you like to say to a chick after you've been making out for a while? I said "How'd you end up here? (she was on top of me) Now get off!" in a playful tone with a playfull push, but i can't use that twice on the same girl haha. What are some other good things you guys like to say?

[canadiankid]

Any of you guys have much club experience? I'm going for my second outing on the 30th and it's my main time to be an actual PUA without getting a bad rep in my small town. Also dance floor escalation, do you guys like to say anything while frontal grinding before k closing?

[Contempt]

I don't have any club experience myself, sorry man.

Push and pull kino is the KEY. Definitely a thing we should discuss in our skype webinars.

-Contempt

[Validus]

We should get a date set for the webinars soon .
Its exam period right now, so could be tough.. Yet very doable still!

-Validus

[Shampoo]

Club? No. Homecoming, Parties, and other dancing events? Yes, and I'd say thats one of my better part of my game. I'll try to make it brief for now since I dont have time but I'll just do some points and if you have a question PLEASE feel free to ask.

I'm not ganna say confidence like EVERYONE is going to say BUT you are going to have the mindset of going out and taking ego hits.Sometimes YOU ARE going to get rejected but as long as YOU dont let it get to you you WILL be fine.

I'm famous at my school for "Grinding Roughly". Chicks love it, dont be friend to be on the girl.

Eye contact when going in. Nuff said.

[canadiankid]

I got the confidence and I'm cool with rejection, it doesn't bother me anymore. I'm thinking of reading some MM cause it might work in that setting (well it was designed to)

[canadiankid]

Goals? Mine are to have 3 # closes and 2 k closes from girls I previously haven't met from now until the end of the month. For long term, I need to become funnier to help with c/f and general flirting.

[slyman]

Please, lets not do goals. I've preached this extensively - short term pick up goals lead to failure and creepiness. You can't act is if you have an agenda. Go out to get to know girls, if there cool have fun with them, and see where that leads you.

Let's use this squad to talk about experiences, success and failure, good ways to go about escalating, etc. Let's please keep goals out of this squad. Especially in escalation, goals come off as creepy.

[canadiankid]

Meh, I like my long term goal and my short terms are gonna happen when I go to a club. Nuff said. I do agree goals can do that but I need to push myself, otherwise I will pussy out. I know myself well enough to know that.