slyman
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Post by slyman on Jan 22, 2011 14:17:47 GMT -5
k if it works for you then alright but be careful
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Post by Shampoo on Jan 22, 2011 17:04:00 GMT -5
Idk man, life IS about goals. I see where your coming from, your ganna get all wrapped up about your goals if you fail BUT even Emmit Smith said you gotta have goals and do whatever you can to achieve them, thats how you succeed in life. To me its this, the guy who wrote Conquering your Campus OR a legendary, Hall of Fame Running Back, who is one of the greatest players in Football Emmit Smith.
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 22, 2011 17:33:12 GMT -5
I'm sure the guy who wrote conquer your camps had goals in his life. Everyone does, you need to have dreams and goals. CYC says not to make girls your only goal, and there not. I go out to have fun but I know that there will be chances to escalate. Maybe a better way to phrase my goals is: escalate to k close every chance possible. However then my conscious mind will tell me I don't have the chance to escalate. Thus I need a finite goal.
I totally get what you mean about lack of success when you go out solely for the purpose of getting pussy Slyman, I've been there and get that.
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Post by slyman on Jan 22, 2011 18:58:14 GMT -5
Alright yeah that's all I meant and I'm sure you get that canadiankid. Goals are incredibly important - I agree. But, with regard to pick up, I like to set longer term goals, and goals more focused on inner game and shit as opposed to actual weekly goals.
I'm off to escalate tonight boys, peace
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 22, 2011 19:37:34 GMT -5
Good luck bro. Fucking exams, I haven't been out socially since last Friday  |
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Post by slyman on Jan 22, 2011 20:01:00 GMT -5
fucking shit dude, parents wont let me go out because of exams also.
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Post by amarok on Jan 22, 2011 22:38:52 GMT -5
I guess I'm a bit of an odd man out right now, but I could use some advice. If you read my first field report, my girl and I were going out and then she broke up with me two weeks in. Me, being just so good at break ups, makes it easy for both of us, holds her when she cries about feeling bad because of it. I talked to her a few days ago and found out that while she still really likes me, she isn't remotely over her ex, a now-transvestite boy in Texas (She was a lesbian and now that she's started talking to me she isn't sure). I told K we would become better friends and then we'd both decide what we want to do.
I want her back, and talking with a girl friend of mine, we both decided that what I can do now is make her like me even more now that I'm back in the position where most pick up applies. I think what I need to do is a lot of kino escalation. What sorts of kino should I use to make the buying temperature go up again? (She isn't comfortable with anyone touching her, I was the most but even I couldn't touch her butt)
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Post by Validus on Jan 23, 2011 1:15:41 GMT -5
Why not make it a goal to:
Go out, and meet / have a fun interaction with 3 girls..
If you actually enjoy it, it will feel more natural to get their #'s and continue it at a later date..
That too me anyways, sounds better than:
" oh .. well shes hott but a total bitch.. but, i HAVE to get her number else i wont meet quota ! uh oh.. "
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 23, 2011 2:02:27 GMT -5
^I like that. It's being stolen and is written down in my personal journal.
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 23, 2011 2:09:39 GMT -5
Oh and Amarok - cuddling/holding her, especially in a protective way, is GREAT kino. I was talking to my girl friend (friend whose a girl to clarify), I asked her what her favourite part of being in a relationship was. She said tie between knowing someone cares about you and being held/cuddling (she described it like a man holding her confidently) Guiding her with your hands, like through a door with your hand on her back, has never gotten rejected for me. Just escalate after, makeout interspersed with cuddling etc.
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Post by slyman on Jan 23, 2011 9:50:09 GMT -5
Why not make it a goal to: Go out, and meet / have a fun interaction with 3 girls.. If you actually enjoy it, it will feel more natural to get their #'s and continue it at a later date.. That too me anyways, sounds better than: " oh .. well shes hott but a total bitch.. but, i HAVE to get her number else i wont meet quota ! uh oh.. " exactly thats right on dude. |
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Post by Contempt on Jan 23, 2011 18:54:50 GMT -5
^ exactly. Plus women are MUCH more attracted to guys who are enjoying themselves rather then cutting themselves the whole time they are around a psychotic bitch they can't stand.
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 23, 2011 19:26:43 GMT -5
I swear I only cut a little and it's not very deep  (if you actually cut, sorry but I was to tempted) |
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Post by slyman on Jan 25, 2011 12:04:08 GMT -5
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Post by amarok on Jan 25, 2011 17:50:10 GMT -5
I saw that a couple months ago--love that thing. I want it tattooed on my arm like a cheat sheet. That'd be awkward during cuddling.
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(if you actually cut, sorry but I was to tempted)