Post by Andrew on Jul 4, 2011 23:03:15 GMT -5
Happy Independence Day everyone! To our friends outside of the USA, happy fourth of July!
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I'm back! (if you even noticed I was gone...)
So for a few weeks now I haven't written anything, haven't been on the site, or been on any site like it. I haven't read material, or opened sets, or been to a club.
What I have done is been rock climbing three times a week, smoking and drinking with my friends and family, working two jobs (one of them full time) and LOVING it, had a great steady hookup and became weiner cousins (look it up) with a good friend of mine.
Nothing spectacular. Fun and interesting, but nothing whirlwind or movie-worthy (save a few nights, obviously).
But I've noticed something. I've noticed that men as a species have become complacent.
What happened to us guys? When did we start losing our manhood? How far along were we when we lost our goddamn testicles? Can we look back and figure it out?
I can sure as hell remember when I DIDN'T have my sack. A lot of the time I still don't. But I'm working on it. And so should you.
I look at us as a society right now and I see how many crutches we have. Pills for sickessess we didn't know we had, only voting for Idol, watching complacently as our freedoms as a nation are ripped away from us. Now, this isn't a political piece and I'm not taking a side here, except the fact that it is the symptom of a larger picture.
We've lost our sack.
When did we become so AFRAID of women? Being mean to a woman because she's at a level of hotness higher than ours so we need to take them to our level? You're taking her power away, because you're afraid of her. When did men get so content with being walked all over, by EVERYBODY. Why are men stuck in jobs they hate in relationships they hate with women they hate.
When did men give up on their dreams? When did men give up?
Look I know that I've written a lot about grabbing life by the balls and not giving a shit or whatever, but then I realized, nobody's gonna be able to do ANY of that unless they fucking nut up.
We sit here in front of our computers and we idolize guys like Ari Gold, or James Bond, or Paul Newman (if you're classy), and we look at the lives that we want to lead in people like High Hefner, or Generic Rockstar, or Paul Newman (if you're classy) and we don't realize that besides the fictional people, these people that you look up to and idolize are real people.
The only difference is that they have a sack.
They work hard for what they want. People always say, "If you want something, then take it." Sure. But they leave out the part where you actually have to fucking work for it. You think Paul Newman or Brad Pitt or whoever the fuck you look up to woke up one morning and was like, "Hey I'm rich handsome and famous now. I'm gonna fuck everything I want now." I can guaran-damn-tee you that every single person in the world who has something worth wanting worked their fucking ASS off to get it.
And for god's sake have you forgotten that you are a MAN?
Do me a favor right now. Look at your hands. No, I mean REALLY look at them. Look at the lines, look at the fingertips, look at scars, blisters, callouses, anything you might have on them. Do you know what THOSE HANDS RIGHT THERE can and have done?
Those hands have built skyscrapers, space shuttles, and microchips. Those hands have climbed mountains and worked scuba gear. Those hands have raped, pillaged, and plundered. Those hands have started AND ended wars. Those hands have held babies and cradled dead relatives. Those hands have pleasured COUNTLESS women, and broke the hearts of a thousand more. Those hands have slapped, fought, been balled into fists, scraped, scuffled, and downright BLED to get you to where you are right now.
Those are MAN HANDS you got right there.
What have you done with those hands? Typed a shit ton at a computer probably. Probably do a little lawn mowing or know your way around a shovel. But probably not much else besides. Hey, besides painting houses full time this Summer, I'm in the same boat.
But shut your goddamn mouth and listen to me. It's not about what you've done, it's about the goddamn potential that rests in your fucking hands. Because you're a man, and you can do whatever the fuck you want.
Every single time you feel lost, or discouraged, or scared, or intimidated, or lazy, look at your goddamn hands. And know that you have the power of countless years of manliness behind you and you can do literally ANYTHING you want because you have a GODDAMN Y CHROMOSOME AND THAT MAKES YOU A MAN AND NOBODY CAN TAKE THAT FROM YOU.
Stop reading this shit. Stop reading how to flirt with a girl. Stop reading how to be a man. You know. You FUCKING KNOW how to be a man because it is HARDWIRED INTO YOUR DNA. LITERALLY. LITERALLY HARDWIRED.
You are programmed to hunt and kill and run and jump and fuck as many women as possible. You aren't MEANT to sit behind a computer and look up how to do shit. You are meant to figure the fuck out how to do it. There isn't meant to be an easy way out.
So stop looking for the easy way out. There are no shortcuts. There are no secret tricks. You know what you want in life and you fucking obliterate anything that gets in your way. Everything you pick up, everything you start, you fucking work on that until it is as PERFECT as you can make it. And then you know that you're a man because you didn't half ass that shit. You picked it up and you made it your own. Because that's what we do. That's why God gave us the ability to pee in the snow. So we could leave our goddamn mark on this Earth.
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Look guys. I get it. I'm nineteen. I'm not a life coach. I haven't "been there." I'm in the same exact boat that you are. I'm just trying to have the best time that I can without my parents riding my ass. But I also know that I can't just skip all the bad parts in life because it's unpleasant. I'm not gonna lie. I've made this realization VERY recently.
I've looked at patterns, and I've looked at you guys, and guys who are good with girls, and guys who get what they want, and guys who don't. The guys who have it better take less shortcuts. They do more. They work more and they do work that they are proud of because they put EFFORT into it.
You can sit here and yell at me and dispute me until the cows come home and thats okay. It means you're not just taking whatever someone spoon feeds you as fact and you're thinking for for yourself. Dispute away, just when you reach down below the your belt, you damn better be certain you have the sack that you want to have.
Guys, stop reading for shortcuts. I'm not gonna tell you to go out and cold call girls until you don't get scared anymore, but I am going to tell you to go do whatever it is that YOU need to do.
You've read enough material on this shit to know what you need to do. There isn't going to be any more different information coming out that wil change your life. You know what YOU need to do, now go do it. Even if it isn't girl-related. Go talk to your mom or your dad. Study. Get a job. My parents always told me "Do the needful." They trust me to know/figure out what MY needful is. I trust you to know or to figure out what yours is.
And another thing. When did it become okay to literally let other people run their mouth and say whatever they want? You have something you want to say, fucking say it. Get in arguments. Form your own damn opinions. Start reading and learning shit so you can contribute. We idolize "alpha characters" and eat up clips of people LAYING INTO people who are bullies or whatever with their words and don't even realize that this is shit and you or I can do EASILY. Start talking more. Learn something. Form opinions. Say what you mean and say what you feel.
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Here's your homework. And this isn't homework for tomorrow, or this week, or until I post again. This is the homework that you do every second of your life until it's burned so far into your head that you never NEVER forget it until you have EVERY GODDAMN THING that you want in this life.
Do the needful.
Work on it until it's as perfect as you can possibly make it.
Start saying what's on your mind. Get in arguments. Win Lose Draw. It doesn't matter. Learn how to stand up for yourself.
Oh, and look at your goddamn man hands every now and again and know that you can do ANYTHING any other man has done.
That's it. That's all. You do what needs to be done and you do it well because that's what you were put on this earth to do. You were blessed with a Y chromosome and a pair of hands that can do anything. So do anything.
You don't have to be the best, but you have a goddamn responsibility to yourself to be the best you that you can be.
You have the power and the potential to have everything that you want in life.
Don't waste it.
My name is Andrew and I approve this message.
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I'm back! (if you even noticed I was gone...)
So for a few weeks now I haven't written anything, haven't been on the site, or been on any site like it. I haven't read material, or opened sets, or been to a club.
What I have done is been rock climbing three times a week, smoking and drinking with my friends and family, working two jobs (one of them full time) and LOVING it, had a great steady hookup and became weiner cousins (look it up) with a good friend of mine.
Nothing spectacular. Fun and interesting, but nothing whirlwind or movie-worthy (save a few nights, obviously).
But I've noticed something. I've noticed that men as a species have become complacent.
What happened to us guys? When did we start losing our manhood? How far along were we when we lost our goddamn testicles? Can we look back and figure it out?
I can sure as hell remember when I DIDN'T have my sack. A lot of the time I still don't. But I'm working on it. And so should you.
I look at us as a society right now and I see how many crutches we have. Pills for sickessess we didn't know we had, only voting for Idol, watching complacently as our freedoms as a nation are ripped away from us. Now, this isn't a political piece and I'm not taking a side here, except the fact that it is the symptom of a larger picture.
We've lost our sack.
When did we become so AFRAID of women? Being mean to a woman because she's at a level of hotness higher than ours so we need to take them to our level? You're taking her power away, because you're afraid of her. When did men get so content with being walked all over, by EVERYBODY. Why are men stuck in jobs they hate in relationships they hate with women they hate.
When did men give up on their dreams? When did men give up?
Look I know that I've written a lot about grabbing life by the balls and not giving a shit or whatever, but then I realized, nobody's gonna be able to do ANY of that unless they fucking nut up.
We sit here in front of our computers and we idolize guys like Ari Gold, or James Bond, or Paul Newman (if you're classy), and we look at the lives that we want to lead in people like High Hefner, or Generic Rockstar, or Paul Newman (if you're classy) and we don't realize that besides the fictional people, these people that you look up to and idolize are real people.
The only difference is that they have a sack.
They work hard for what they want. People always say, "If you want something, then take it." Sure. But they leave out the part where you actually have to fucking work for it. You think Paul Newman or Brad Pitt or whoever the fuck you look up to woke up one morning and was like, "Hey I'm rich handsome and famous now. I'm gonna fuck everything I want now." I can guaran-damn-tee you that every single person in the world who has something worth wanting worked their fucking ASS off to get it.
And for god's sake have you forgotten that you are a MAN?
Do me a favor right now. Look at your hands. No, I mean REALLY look at them. Look at the lines, look at the fingertips, look at scars, blisters, callouses, anything you might have on them. Do you know what THOSE HANDS RIGHT THERE can and have done?
Those hands have built skyscrapers, space shuttles, and microchips. Those hands have climbed mountains and worked scuba gear. Those hands have raped, pillaged, and plundered. Those hands have started AND ended wars. Those hands have held babies and cradled dead relatives. Those hands have pleasured COUNTLESS women, and broke the hearts of a thousand more. Those hands have slapped, fought, been balled into fists, scraped, scuffled, and downright BLED to get you to where you are right now.
Those are MAN HANDS you got right there.
What have you done with those hands? Typed a shit ton at a computer probably. Probably do a little lawn mowing or know your way around a shovel. But probably not much else besides. Hey, besides painting houses full time this Summer, I'm in the same boat.
But shut your goddamn mouth and listen to me. It's not about what you've done, it's about the goddamn potential that rests in your fucking hands. Because you're a man, and you can do whatever the fuck you want.
Every single time you feel lost, or discouraged, or scared, or intimidated, or lazy, look at your goddamn hands. And know that you have the power of countless years of manliness behind you and you can do literally ANYTHING you want because you have a GODDAMN Y CHROMOSOME AND THAT MAKES YOU A MAN AND NOBODY CAN TAKE THAT FROM YOU.
Stop reading this shit. Stop reading how to flirt with a girl. Stop reading how to be a man. You know. You FUCKING KNOW how to be a man because it is HARDWIRED INTO YOUR DNA. LITERALLY. LITERALLY HARDWIRED.
You are programmed to hunt and kill and run and jump and fuck as many women as possible. You aren't MEANT to sit behind a computer and look up how to do shit. You are meant to figure the fuck out how to do it. There isn't meant to be an easy way out.
So stop looking for the easy way out. There are no shortcuts. There are no secret tricks. You know what you want in life and you fucking obliterate anything that gets in your way. Everything you pick up, everything you start, you fucking work on that until it is as PERFECT as you can make it. And then you know that you're a man because you didn't half ass that shit. You picked it up and you made it your own. Because that's what we do. That's why God gave us the ability to pee in the snow. So we could leave our goddamn mark on this Earth.
------
Look guys. I get it. I'm nineteen. I'm not a life coach. I haven't "been there." I'm in the same exact boat that you are. I'm just trying to have the best time that I can without my parents riding my ass. But I also know that I can't just skip all the bad parts in life because it's unpleasant. I'm not gonna lie. I've made this realization VERY recently.
I've looked at patterns, and I've looked at you guys, and guys who are good with girls, and guys who get what they want, and guys who don't. The guys who have it better take less shortcuts. They do more. They work more and they do work that they are proud of because they put EFFORT into it.
You can sit here and yell at me and dispute me until the cows come home and thats okay. It means you're not just taking whatever someone spoon feeds you as fact and you're thinking for for yourself. Dispute away, just when you reach down below the your belt, you damn better be certain you have the sack that you want to have.
Guys, stop reading for shortcuts. I'm not gonna tell you to go out and cold call girls until you don't get scared anymore, but I am going to tell you to go do whatever it is that YOU need to do.
You've read enough material on this shit to know what you need to do. There isn't going to be any more different information coming out that wil change your life. You know what YOU need to do, now go do it. Even if it isn't girl-related. Go talk to your mom or your dad. Study. Get a job. My parents always told me "Do the needful." They trust me to know/figure out what MY needful is. I trust you to know or to figure out what yours is.
And another thing. When did it become okay to literally let other people run their mouth and say whatever they want? You have something you want to say, fucking say it. Get in arguments. Form your own damn opinions. Start reading and learning shit so you can contribute. We idolize "alpha characters" and eat up clips of people LAYING INTO people who are bullies or whatever with their words and don't even realize that this is shit and you or I can do EASILY. Start talking more. Learn something. Form opinions. Say what you mean and say what you feel.
-----
Here's your homework. And this isn't homework for tomorrow, or this week, or until I post again. This is the homework that you do every second of your life until it's burned so far into your head that you never NEVER forget it until you have EVERY GODDAMN THING that you want in this life.
Do the needful.
Work on it until it's as perfect as you can possibly make it.
Start saying what's on your mind. Get in arguments. Win Lose Draw. It doesn't matter. Learn how to stand up for yourself.
Oh, and look at your goddamn man hands every now and again and know that you can do ANYTHING any other man has done.
That's it. That's all. You do what needs to be done and you do it well because that's what you were put on this earth to do. You were blessed with a Y chromosome and a pair of hands that can do anything. So do anything.
You don't have to be the best, but you have a goddamn responsibility to yourself to be the best you that you can be.
You have the power and the potential to have everything that you want in life.
Don't waste it.
My name is Andrew and I approve this message.
