HOW CAN I REJECT A GIRL?

[sunny321]

There are few girls in my school, who really likes me. They are cool but i don't want anyone of then as my girlfriend. How can i tell them that it not gonna happen without hurting them i guess. i want them to be my friends, JUST FRIENDS. please help me out?

[Volt]

My buddy is having the same problems, and I don't know how to help. When this happens to me, I talk to the anti-target more, but in an AFC way. A freeze-out might make them want you, and gaming them is the wrong idea. I'm interested in what the forum has to say, though.

[optimus]

Well, you could completely avoid game: create awkward silences, don't touch, etc.

Or you could be upfront, and ask her if she likes you, if she says yes then you could just tell her that you think she's cool, but you aren't interested in her.

Remember if you're gaming right then everybody should be interested in you. There's no reason you should act differently because she is; you're used to it.

[Volt]

If you're less than extremely careful with confrontations, you can screw yourself over for years. Girls operate on a hivemind, ITS PROVEN FACT!!!!!!!!!!!1111111111
Also, ignoring the emotionally sensitive types can lead to trouble.

[Zomga48]

Seriously, girls are like the fuckin zerg, take out one of their drones and you find yourself being swarmed by a ton of fuckin mutalisks.

(Not sarcasm, just a silly analogy)

[Volt]

+1 haha

[Luc]

Well... Something that i've learned from this problem is actually something people use for game. Basically I tell them that I dont like them without confronting them.

All you have to do is tell them that you are happy to have a good friend like them and it would suck to ruin that friendship. Then later you ask them about girls in an AFC way.

In the end they get the message indirectly that you don't want anything more than friendship.

[Volt]

So in a way you BF destroy yourself?

[Luc]

yea exactly

[SamethP]

stop gaming them
tell them how it is
hook up with their best friend

theres three options
pick your fav

[bash]

I got the same problem bro

[Ari Gold]

Do it in a business way.
"Sorry, you're interesting, cool, cute, etc, but you're just not for me. Maybe in the future."

[smats]

What ALWAYS worked for me is just a little freezeout. What I realized is that I am / was way too flirty with girls that I am not attracted to, when I realized they liked me more than "just friends" I slowed down on the KINO, stopped ever texting them, hanging out with them, sitting next to them at lunch (same table is alright tho) if you do that for a few weeks, you will see how they don't laugh about your shit thats not really funny anymore etc etc. they'll still be your friends, prolly still good friends and youre gonna have much fun with them without hurting them -MATS

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

Umm dude I have this problem a lot XD
no but seriously: just keep talking to her normally and if she tells you she likes you
say you don't feel that way, then treat them normally she will start blaming herself for that and then she will be a great friend that you don't need to please

[Sye~]

You guys should really check the dates.

Anyways, you should just straight up tell them lets be friends.
Its what I do, and works. o-o
I don't hit on my girl friends, we just chill and talk like friends after I make it clear that I just want to be friends.
I usually tell the select ones over MSN or the Phone.